The Adventures of Motherhood with Twin Boys

The Adventures of Motherhood with Twin Boys
Love, Hugs, and a few Tears
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TwinTastic Two!
I am frequently asked, "Is it difficult having twins?"  My response is, "I don't know any different."
In reality, I know being a twin mom is more difficult, but it is also TwinTastic because everything comes in twos!  

Two laughing babies.
Two crying babies.
Two smiling babies.
Two teething babies.
Two sleeping babies.
Two talking babies.
Two rolling babies.
Two crawling babies.
Two hungry babies.
Two breast fed babies.
Two healthy babies.
Two happy babies.
Two brothers, Two playmates.

I do have to mention that two of everything also equates to double the laundry, double the diapers, double the baby gear.  However, the positives always out weigh any negatives.  I love my twins!   I wouldn't want it to be any different.    


 
Topics: twins, multiples, parenting, Siblings
posted by mom2twinboys on Tuesday, March 4, 2008 at 04:33 PM
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posted by TwinkiesMom on Mar 4, 2008 at 05:08 PM

It's true, when you have twins you don't know any better. I always used to tell people that it's not twice the work, it's about 1.5 times. I don't know if I said that to make them feel better or myself.

The first few months is a very distant memory for me...as they are approaching their 7th birthday next month, I can barely remember having two swings, cribs, bouncy seats, high chairs and all the other gear that takes up space! What I do have are two kids who are fiercly loyal to each other (even if they do try to kill each other occassionally!) and still like to share a room, even though they are boy/girl twins.

Rest assured, it does get easier...Well, in all ways but one...Laundry!! Enjoy :)

posted by SacMom on Mar 5, 2008 at 01:52 PM

I had a 4 year old when my twinnies came along and I would say that definitely, the twins were easier.  Probably because I'd already done it before, but also because more people seemed willing to help out.  I agree, it's really 1.5 times the work because you are already doing it.   As they get older, they keep each other entertained and help each other out. 

Wait until they start walking!!!  It's amazing how two little babies can be so crafty...I'll never forget finding two 14 month olds on the dining room table swinging the chandelier back and forth to each other!

The biggest difference between singles and multiples, is that you really have to suck it up and deal more.  With one, my hub was there when I needed a break, with twins...someone always needed something, so it helped me to multitask and not sweat the little stuff as much!

Love reading about your journey...it's bringing back so many memories...it goes way too fast!

posted by ThatTripletMom on Mar 5, 2008 at 03:12 PM
I remember sitting on th floor with my three infants and just being in awe of the fact that there were three babies in my house!

I have to tell everyone; multiples are a dream for grandparents, no fighting over who is holding the baby - there are enough to go around.

It is tough to have multiples for the first few months.  But it actually got easier.  Wait until they can get into their carseats by themselves!  That was a momentous milestone.

Although one challenge met seems to lead to the discovery of a new challenge; for example, the joy of their first words leads to the challenge of budding negotiators and the refrain of "But Mommy...." times three.

I am trying to remember to enjoy every moment of this wonderful journey and it sounds like you are too.

Good job MOM!
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2008 at 02:12 PM

I am not prejudice even if I am your Mother and the blessed Grandma of your precious twin baby boys, however I must say your blog on Twintasic is truly heartfelt beautiful!   I too would  not have it any other way . 

"Grandchildren are our reward for surving our own children." 

My recommended reading for Grandparents:  "Babies & Other Hazards of Sex,  How to make a tiny person in only 9months, with tools you probably have around the home." by Dave Barry  Copyrighted 1984. Very, very funny!  We love, love, love being Grandparents!!!   

 

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