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No matter what time Brodie goes to sleep, anytime between 7PM - 8PM, he still wakes up between 4AM-5AM.  He wakes up screaming, saying "up, up, book, book."  I rush him down the hall, out into the playroom, as far away from his room, so he doesn't wake Lucas up.  If its before 5AM we sit in the dark on the couch and he rolls around hurting me, while I try to keep him quiet.  I tell him its still dark outside, its still night, Daddy & Lucas are sleeping so we have to be quiet.  He gets frustrated and continues to insist I read a book or let him watch bike videos on YouTube. 
Once 5AM rolls around, we read books, sing songs, and occasionally watch YouTube. 
I;ve tried to get him to go back to sleep, but he just screams, throws a loud tantrum, and wakes Lucas up. Then I have two grumpy kids hanging out with me before 5AM...and this makes for a very long day.

I know what I'm doing is not working...and its definitely not helping Brodie learn how to fall back asleep, and not helping him learn it is too early to wake up.  I would like to help him learn that when its still dark outside, its sleepy time, and he needs to go back to sleep or stay in his room quietly.

Yes, I know I'm being taken advantage of by my kids. But up until last night, I just wasn't ready to deal with reality.  I had to reach my breaking point.  And I have more than reached it!

I get so frustrated that I just want to put him back in his bed, tell him its night time, and shut his door....and let him work it out.

The result would be:  Lucas being woke up, and both of Brodie and Lucas crying, screaming and throwing hysterical tantrums, rolling around on the floor, hitting their heads on the floor (they can both be dramatic at times), climbing up and anything they can possibly reach.....until I open their door.  I'll still be awake, my husband will be awake, and I the only thing that I will have accomplished is not having to sit on the couch in the dark with Brodie rolling /climbing all over me for an hour...I forgot to mention that he bites me, head butts me...and just plain thrashes me.   No fun at all for either of us!  He usually ends of waking Lucas up with all his commotion anyway. 

On a good morning, Brodie wakes up at 5AM and we read and sing songs until Lucas wakes up around 6AM-6:30 AM.  Yes, that means I might have to sing songs for over an hour, and amazingly Brodie sits there content.  He has a song book with 40 songs that he really likes right now.  I end up with these silly songs stuck in my head all day, and night if I can't block them out. 

This is only one of our problems related to sleep.  The other ongoing problem is I can't get either Lucas and Brodie to fall asleep in their toddler beds.  We are walking them to sleep in the stroller or driving them to sleep in the car.  I know this is a temporary solution, and I know I need to stop.   Honestly, I don't know what to do.  I am gratful for the suggestions received thus far.  But the suggestions either haven't worked or just will not work in our house.  ie: 1) put Brodie in a time out bedroom separated from Lucas.  His reward would be to return to his own bed in the same room with his brother.  The only extra room in our house can not be emptied at this time. 2) separate Lucas and Brodie by putting them to sleep in different bedrooms.   I know this won't work for us.....they like being together, so I want to respect their bond. Again the only extra room we have can't be emptied right now.  3) for nearly a month I tried sitting with each of them next to their beds.  Every time they got out of their beds, I told them to go back to bed.  One would get out, then the other one would get out.  Lucas and Brodie would get in and out of their beds over and over and over.  I tried a combination of staying in their room and leaving their room.  It didn't make a difference whether I was there or not.  Each week worsened rather than improve, and as we neared 4 weeks it was taking over an hour to get them to go to sleep....One night it took 1 1/2 hours....and that is when I just gave up and started walking or driving them to sleep. 

I am open to more suggestions or possible solutions.  In the meantime, I'm losing my sanity...not to mention I am sleep deprived.

I have the next couple of days to figure out a plan.  Starting Monday morning nap time/bedtime boot camp begins at our house.