Creating My Own Adventure

Creating My Own Adventure
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Motherhood is an going adventure and one that provides many positive and challenging experiences along the way. Just when I think that I've got a handle on things, something else changes. I often find myself wondering, what's next.   

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Change it Up

To some extent, I am a creature of habit.  I always fall asleep on my left side, I have one diet coke per day, I take the same route to work and I order the exact same sandwich from Subway almost every time I eat there; 6" turkey on wheat, American cheese, light mustard, lettuce, bell peppers, pickles, spinach and a little salt and pepper. Boring? Maybe. Or perhaps I'm decisive and know what I want.

Nonetheless, I've decided to change things up a bit and challenge myself. Challenge myself to step out of my comfort  zone and try new things. Different things. Things that I wouldn't normally do. 

So here's my progress a few weeks into my "self challenge".

I have added a few sleeveless shirts into my wardrobe. I have always been self conscious of my upper arms because they are not exactly the arms that would appear in Shape magazine. (well, maybe the before picture) I figured lifting a 20 pound baby would help, but it's those darn triceps! Curses! I guess tricep kick backs are in order. Nonetheless, I am wearing more sleeveless tops, (still self conscious), but wearing them.

Today, I got Swiss cheese on my Subway sandwich instead of American. I know, pretty thrilling. Baby steps, right?

But the most "unlike' me thing that I've done recently is that I went to see a movie by myself. Not earth shattering for those of you that have been doing this for years (like my mom) but I just never have done it. Hubby was gone for the weekend playing in a softball tournament and my in-laws offered to watch my wee ones. I didn't want to waste my precious hours of freedom at the grocery store, so I thought a movie was in order.  Yes, I chose The Hulk. Because of the special effects and well, how big he is, I thought it would be better on the big screen as opposed to waiting for it to be released on DVD... like I would normally do.

I got to the theater just in time to get settled into my seat and realize it was more crowded than I thought it was going to be. At least no one sat next to me. I made it through the previews and five minutes into the movie when all of a sudden, my perfect movie moment was squelched when she sat next to me. She kicked my foot when she sat down and her long, curly hair kept hitting my arm. eww. I thought about moving over one seat, but I was worried that I would insult this nameless stranger that I would probably never see again. Oh well. I readjusted and it worked out. However, I do want to go to another movie by myself, but in a bigger theater with less people and more space.  

My next big challenge is to plan an overnight trip to San Francisco with just hubby, no kids. We've never been away for an overnight excursion, so this will be a first for us. I'm looking forward to it, but I know I'll be a little anxious. 

So, I'll continue to try to change my routine here and there and try new things. Before I know it, I'll be ordering ham sandwiches on sourdough and sleeping on my right side...well, let's not go too far.

Topics: routines; rut
posted by ktja on Thursday, August 14, 2008 at 11:56 PM
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posted by creatress on Aug 15, 2008 at 07:06 AM

Next time someone sits next to you like that (I HATE THAT!) Just start coughing. A lot. Sound like you have something really gross. They'll move. Or just suck it up and YOU move. You're not rude, the late person who squashed you is.

Good for you for making those little changes. I think it's GREAT! It's so easy to get into little habits. Oh, and just have a glass of wine or something on your trip and you'll be fine. Enjoy it!

 

posted by AmandaS on Aug 15, 2008 at 10:31 AM

GOOD FOR YOU!

Mixing it up keeps things interesting. I think it is always good to try new stuff.

BTW, I love going to movies by myself.

posted by hmoeckli on Aug 15, 2008 at 09:54 PM
I LOVE going to the movies by myself! It used to be a end-of-the-school year tradition for me. I could pick the girly movie I wanted to see, I didn't need to share my popcorn or juju-bees...awesome!

Good for you!
posted by crzkb on Aug 16, 2008 at 04:05 PM

Welcome to the club!  In order to avoid the stranger sitting next to you syndrom, I pick an early movie, usually a chick flick, and arive as close to movie time as possible.  If someone STILL sits next to you, just get up and move.  What are they going to do, question you on it?? 

Good job.

posted by kellimwheeler on Aug 18, 2008 at 02:27 PM

Welcome to the club! I LOVE going to the movies by myself. In fact, to celebrate surviving summer, I plan on doing that this week.

To really push your comfort zone may I suggest sprinkling Junior Mints in your popcorn... salty plus sweet, oozy warm minty chocolate... what's not to love?

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