Not enough hours in the day!

Not enough hours in the day!
Kids, being a wife, and keeping time for yourself.
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Another Disappointment

Hello everyone, its been a while.  I have been so busy.  My brother in law visited from Minnesota for a few weeks with his little girl, that was a fun time.  We don't get to see him but once every few years.  My kids have been keeping me insanely busy.  But the reason I am posting is it happened again.   I don't know if any of you remember back in December I had a miscarriage, well it happened again.  It was actually a surprise that I was pregnant, and at about the same time around six weeks I started what seemed like my period.  There wasn't much the doctors could do, and they really don't have an explanation for it.  They want to do some sort of scan or ultrasound of my uterus to see if there is a reason the eggs are not attaching. 

I am growing a bit concerned though.  Last time it happened the more I talked to people the more I found out that this is farely common, but twice in a row?  I am wondering if anyone else has had this problem.  I know its a bit personal to talk about, but I would like to see if anyone has any insight. 

I wasn't as depressed this second time, more just disappointed.  The first time was a lot harder.  We have decided to wait a while to try again, if at all.  Maybe after summertime.  We have a trip in August to Tahoe for a week I want to try to lose some weight so I can fit into a bikini! (that would be for the first time in my life)

Anyways, if anyone has had this experience I am sorry for you, but I would love to hear from you.  I thank God every day for the two wonderful boys I have and for the best husband in the world.  If it was meant to be that our family will grow, then it will grow.  Somewhere down the road maybe. 

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posted by jnkmommy on Wednesday, March 19, 2008 at 06:36 AM
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posted by creatress on Mar 19, 2008 at 10:23 AM
I had a a friend who had the same thing happen to her four times in a row. Like you, always around the same time. First of all, it seems to run in the family. In the end (they had no children at the time) the doctor gave her some kind of medication (wish I could be more specific!) and she had to have a temporary plug in her cervex. I think she was dialating and that was part of the problem.

A quick Google hunt turned up these good sites.
http://www.rialab.com/misca...
http://www.mamashealth.com/...
http://www.healthscout.com/...

Some possible causes from what I saw could be an un-diagnosed thyroid problem, or just stress. I would definitly talk to my dr. about it and get a full work up just to make sure it isn't a symptom of something going on.

You seem to have a GREAT attitude and very healthy look on life. It sounds like you're doing all the right things. I'm very sorry for your losses.
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posted by evagutierrez on Mar 24, 2008 at 10:28 AM
I just wanted you to know that you are not alone!  The same thing happened to me.  We were also just about ready to give up but I received a sign from God and knew that we should try one more time, and now we have our miracle baby Vanesa Isabela who is 2 1/2 years old now!!!!  God Bless you and your family in this difficult time because it seems like it was only yesterday I was in your shoes but now I thank God everyday for my girls!!
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