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Teeter Totter ~ Finding a Balance Between Me-Hood and Motherhood

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Teeter Totter
Finding a Balance Between
"Me-Hood" and "Motherhood"

In this blog I'll be covering as wide a variety of subjects as the duties of a real mom in today's culture.


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Passion

Passion comes in many forms. Romance with another person, a zeal and zest for life, ultimate enjoyment of something… I consider myself to be a pretty passionate person. I have very strong opinions (I know, you’re all shocked to hear this); I am quick to love something and just as quick to dislike it. You may call it “fickle,” I call it passionate.

 

I’ve talked a little about my plans to join a local swim group in Davis (and my preparation to do just that.) Monday was my first day there. The pool was packed and I was in a lane with four other people for the workout of my life. Although I really enjoyed the workout, I did feel four people to a single lap lane was a bit out of my league. I talked to the coach after and he suggested I try a different time on Wednesday, assuring me there will only be two to a lane then. I show up Wednesday at the suggested time and… there are six people per lane! He’s actually thinking this is fine and telling me to jump right in.

 

Now, I hadn’t signed up yet, but would need to on that day. I told the coach there’s no way I was swimming in a lane with six other people! He understood and told me to “try again in an hour.” I had been passionate about my experience on Monday. I had really built this team up in my head and was very disappointed at the way things were going.

 

Some people would have gone back in an hour; others may have thought it no big deal and just quit swimming. I called a girlfriend, joined her on a swim at her local gym, and ended up loving it and joining her health club yesterday.

 

All of this GREATLY confused my husband. Why the sudden turn? I was so passionate about wanting to join this other team! Now one thing happens and I’ve totally changed my tune? In short… yes. The thing is, he thought I was passionate about the first swim team. What I was really passionate about was… ME!

 

It was about me getting healthy, swimming and loving it; me getting into a routine every other day of jumping into a pool and working my butt off. In the end, it really didn’t matter where. I wasn’t passionate about the coach, or the other swimmers, or the pool. I was (and am) passionate about my desire to change for the better.

 

Wish me luck you passionate women you!

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posted by wifemotherdaughtersister on Jan 16, 2009 at 01:12 PM
hey i think that is great!  i love how you knew exactly what you wanted and a little crash in the swim lane didn't stand in your way.  best of luck!

ps. where did you get a suit at this time of year?
posted by creatress on Jan 16, 2009 at 03:21 PM

I got my suit on eBay, but I've bought off Amazon before. I knew exactly what I wanted (black Speedo) and what size (no comment), so I was comfortable buying on-line. I got it brand new, tags and all for about 75% off retail! Woo hoo!

I saw again today and had a great time. I wish more of you lived in Davis!!!

posted by AmandaS on Jan 16, 2009 at 06:22 PM
Anything that gets you moving and grooving is a good thing and you should be passionate about YOU--after all you've got that speedo to fill out! ;-)  I am going to be passionate about exercise this year, too. I wouldn't call it a resolution, but its definitely my mane goal for myself this year--that and my website. Don't forget that you PROMISED last year that you would do the half marathon with me THIS year! ;-)
posted by creatress on Jan 16, 2009 at 07:04 PM

Yup, I didn't forget my promise! Why do you think I joined a gym? Hahaha. How's our third marathon party member doing? I swear not to be passed by a giant red chili pepper again.

I am for sure moving and grooving. I'm glad you're focusing on yourself as well. You deserve it!

posted by LifeSTYLECoach on Jan 19, 2009 at 03:50 PM
Yay for you!  You didn't find the right situation at first, but you were obviously passionate enough about it to keep on trying.  You my dear found the secret to success...follow your passion, and the universe will open doors for you :-)
posted by creatress on Jan 19, 2009 at 04:24 PM
That's a GREAT motto!
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