Teeter Totter ~ Finding a Balance Between Me-Hood and Motherhood

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Finding a Balance Between
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As tempted as I was this morning to write (errr, vent) about the election and what pleased and displeased me this morning, I’m saving it for my personal blog.

 

When my son started Junior High School in Davis (two years ago now) I was pretty shocked to learn that they had a GSA club on campus. GSA stands for Gay-Straight Alliance. I thought “HOW YOUNG! I can see High School, but Junior High!” So, you can imagine how even more shocked I was to learn my little 7th grade boy had joined. “WHAT! WHY? You’re straight! Hetro! Not liking the boys! Why would you join that club!” “Mom (he said in his all knowing voice) it’s the Gay STRAIGHT ALLIANCE club, not the Gay Club. I want to support my friends at school.” That knocked the wind out of my sail fast.

 

All I could imagine was everyone at school thinking my son was gay and picking on him for being a member of this club. All he saw however was supporting a large group of his friends in a cause they both believed in (equal rights for all.)

 

This is his third year of being a member. He’s been the only male member AND the only straight member for all three years. He’s sat at their table in the quad during “Club Day” and told people why it’s important to support all classmates at the school. He’s sympathized with his friends when they’re bullied and have issues. He’s been the butt of some jokes, but this being Davis, they’re few and far between.

 

It’s for sure not a popular club, full of popular kids, but I’m proud to know there’s some things my son already knows are more important in life. Like… helping each other, looking out for one another, being there for your friends and neighbors, working to make the world a better place. I couldn’t be more proud if he were the first straight president of the GSA.

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posted by ThatTripletMom on Nov 5, 2008 at 09:56 AM
Good for man-cub. And good for you for being such a supportive mommy to raise a son who will stand by his friends.
posted by creatress on Nov 5, 2008 at 10:01 AM
Awwww. thanks TripletMom!
posted by wifemotherdaughtersister on Nov 5, 2008 at 04:18 PM
wow!  what an incredible young man!  to do what he feels is right, instead of what is obviously popular takes alot of courage and i am very impressed! 

and ps.  what great parents you are to be supportive and open to his decisions.
posted by hmoeckli on Nov 5, 2008 at 09:14 PM
As the person who started my GSA at my high school (the first one in the bay area), I say yay to your son! That is so awesome.
posted by creatress on Nov 5, 2008 at 10:20 PM

That's really cool hmoeckli! I told man-cub and he said "GO HER!" I never knew that about you.

Thanks wifemotherdaughtersister. What a sweet compliment. And yeah, I'm pretty proud.

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