Teeter Totter ~ Finding a Balance Between Me-Hood and Motherhood

About creatress


Gender:
female
Date of Birth:
January 01, 1973
Member Since:
September 11, 2007
Last Signed In:
November 19, 2008
Blog Views:
8406
Send a Message Send To A Friend Sign Guestbook Add as a Friend

Previous Posts
I Love Cell Phones… I Hate Them
Pruning Your Life
A Crafty Gift
My Husband Martha
Food For Thought
No Politics… Just a Share
VOTE
What Do You See? (Part II)
What Do You See?
What a Start!
Archives
September 07
October 07
November 07
December 07
January 08
February 08
March 08
April 08
May 08
June 08
July 08
August 08
September 08
October 08
November 08
Teeter Totter
Finding a Balance Between
"Me-Hood" and "Motherhood"

In this blog I'll be covering as wide a variety of subjects as the duties of a real mom in today's culture.


From raising special needs children, family vacations, marriage, relationships, sex, cooking, local to-do, school (both for you and the children), working, hiring a daycare provider, arts and crafts, decorating, holidays, to well... EVERYTHING!

No holding back.
Subscribe!
RSS 2.0 feed RSS 2.0
Add to My Yahoo
Add to My Google
Add to Bloglines
Add to My AOL
Time For SEXY Mama!

My 14th wedding anniversary is right around the corner (October 1st), and I decided what I wanted most was to look sexy that day. You know, like I just stepped out of Sex in the City. All beautiful, confident and put together. We all know that when you look sexy and feel sexy then you ARE sexy. I don’t know about you, but it’s been a while since I felt sexy (since Las Vegas.) Unfortunately, you can’t usually feel sexy without spending a little money.

 

$180 later and I’m feeling sexy all right, and like I don’t want to tell my husband what I just spent. I thought about just waiting till he saw how good I looked, then springing it on him. Years of being together however have taught me not to put things like that off. I told him soon after he got home last night.

 

“I got some things on-line today.” “Oh! Really? What?” “Oh, I wanted a new dress for our anniversary. They were having a really good sale." "What did you get?" "I got a dress, tights, 2 pairs of shoes and a negligee.” “WHAT! HOW MUCH DID YOU SPEND!” (In his best Ricky Ricardo impression.) “They were having a good sale and I put it on the credit card!” “HOW MUCH!” “Ummm, about $180.” Now this is where I learned that I am far too cheap with my clothes for myself, because my husband says, “You didn’t get very much for $180!” Yes, he really said that.

I got… a new dress (Fall dress, not clearance dress), black tights, leather boots, leather mary janes and a negligee for $180. Am I nuts to think that’s a really good price? Yes, he wasn’t pleased. Yes, I got the budget talk. Yes, I swore to be good and stick to our budget. They didn’t show that part in Sex in the City, did they?

 

It was worth it. I’ll look smoking hot on my anniversary and have some much needed new Fall pieces. I can’t wait for my new boots! What makes you feel sexy?

(The picture is the dress and boots. The joy of on-line shopping, I can post pics! I'm going to wear them with the black tights and take lots of pics.)

11 comments from 7 users

1

posted by AmandaS on Sep 26, 2008 at 09:59 AM
Um...he must only wear Old Navy t shirts. You did great for $180 and I'm sure that you will hot!
posted by creatress on Sep 26, 2008 at 10:31 AM

That's the thing! He shops at Mens Wearhouse where $180 will get you 1 shirt and a pair of socks (maybe if they're having a sale!) I don't get it.

Thanks doll!

posted by sleeplessinsacramento on Sep 26, 2008 at 11:53 AM

Boots and shoes and more? Good shoes that last for more than one season cost at least $70 if on sale don't you think? What a bargain. I would have bought things twice and said I spent less than $100 each time.

As long as you didn't buy Crocs;) Do they make sexy Crocs yet?

 

 

 

posted by creatress on Sep 26, 2008 at 12:17 PM
Hahaha, nope... I learned the Crock lesson. We had them before they were popular (so then it was cool.) But last year one of my art students told me "My grandma has those shoes!" Now they are for yard work only, not in public.
posted by marathongirly on Sep 26, 2008 at 05:14 PM

You go girl!  Don't forget the sexy undergarments for your man!  we just celebrated 24 years together!! Unheard of these days!

Have a blast!

jennifer

www.marathongirly.com

 

posted by creatress on Sep 26, 2008 at 08:58 PM

Thanks marathongirly. For those extra special occasions, I skip the undergarments altogether. HEhehe.

 

posted by maryleo9 on Sep 27, 2008 at 12:17 PM

I think you did great on your bargain hunting! Until recently I personally wouldn't spend more than $10 on a top and $20 on a pair of jeans but I've since come to realize if I want more than a jeans/tees wardrobe I'm going to have to fork over more of my allowance. Yes, my husband does question how much I spend on things but I just remind him my allowance is for whatever I want to spend it on no matter what the cost. I do still buy pretty much every clothing item on sale though.

And Creatress, looking at your picture you are a beautiful woman already so I'm sure it doesn't take much work to hit the sexy mark. And congrats on 14 years. Just celebrated 9 years in July myself - and 7 of it was before we had kids!

posted by creatress on Sep 27, 2008 at 02:03 PM

Wow! What a compliment maryleo9 . You're too kind! Yeah, that's a pretty flattering picture. Hahaha.

It sounds like we're in the same boat. I'm also trying to get better about buying some "investment" pieces (on sale of course), but beyond the Target clothes. Good for you for spoiling yourself with your allowance!

posted by hmoeckli on Sep 28, 2008 at 08:51 AM
That's a great price! You could have easily spent $180 on the boots alone.

I can't wait to see your new outfit!
posted by wifemotherdaughtersister on Sep 29, 2008 at 06:10 AM
dang!  yeah it's all in perspective.  come home with a fabulous $500 purse, and he'll forget all about the measly $180.
posted by creatress on Sep 29, 2008 at 08:06 AM
Oh you ladies kill me. That's a good one! My Coach babies could always use a new sister. Hehehe. I'll post pics!
1

Leave a Comment
Ground Rules for posting comments:
  • No profanity or personal attacks.
  • Please comment on the subject of the blog post itself.
If you do not follow these rules we will remove your comment. Please keep it civil.

To protect users from spam, we need you to prove that you're a human being.
Please enter the text from the image at left.
Make my comment anonymous Show my user name with my comment