Teeter Totter ~ Finding a Balance Between Me-Hood and Motherhood
|
Gender: female Date of Birth: January 01, 1973 Member Since: September 11, 2007 Last Signed In: November 30, 2008 Blog Views: 8588 Send To A Friend Sign Guestbook Add as a Friend
Tradition Interrupted
Enjoy Your "Day Off!" Building Self Esteem Blogging Tips Ho Ho Ho (or something like it) I Love Cell Phones… I Hate Them Pruning Your Life A Crafty Gift My Husband Martha Food For Thought September 07 October 07 November 07 December 07 January 08 February 08 March 08 April 08 May 08 June 08 July 08 August 08 September 08 October 08 November 08 December 08 Teeter Totter Finding a Balance Between "Me-Hood" and "Motherhood" In this blog I'll be covering as wide a variety of subjects as the duties of a real mom in today's culture. From raising special needs children, family vacations, marriage, relationships, sex, cooking, local to-do, school (both for you and the children), working, hiring a daycare provider, arts and crafts, decorating, holidays, to well... EVERYTHING! No holding back.
RSS 2.0![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
|
|
I’m a POSER! (or, the American River 5K)
At 6:00AM this past Saturday, my alarm rudely interrupted my blissful sleep to let me know it was time to get up, and get ready for the American River Parkway 5K run. Two hours later I found myself meeting fellow SacMomsClub mom AmandaS., live and in-person. We had chatted about the race ahead of time and she even offered to let me park my car at her place, rather than fight my way for a spot there. It was so wonderful to meet yet another cool mom from the site and her two beautiful girls. To be chauffeured by her tall, handsome husband in their beautiful new car also gave me pep in my step for the 5K. Unlike myself, Amanda had been walking and training on the trails for a while now. I knew as soon as we hit the event that I would be like a cement block around her cute running shoes and drag that girl down with me. In spite of my many suggestions that she leave me in the dust, she refused and we held tight the whole time. We lined up to start the race and my heart was pounding. Amanda looked like she’d been running for years in athletic garb. We started off at a good pace, pounding the trail and breaking away from some of the pack. Amanda was so funny and interesting that I was more interested in hearing about her than in making good time. She kept a great pace and I tried to keep up with her as best I could. About ½ a mile in, I was really regretting that my only “training” had been walking my dogs around the block. Amanda rooted me on as my face quickly turned red and my breathing sounded like I smoke a pack a day. In short, I was pathetic. I checked out our competition; Grandmothers, children, pregnant women, women pushing strollers. My eyes landed on a “mature” woman in red and her adult daughter. I told Amanda “I’m not going to let them beat me!” and hustled it up a bit more. Halfway through I saw a little dip in the road. I told Amanda “Let’s jog a little!” My father-in-law had suggested this technique. Amanda said that she heard you were supposed to jog for two minutes, and then walk for five. “I’ll settle for jogging for 30seconds and walking for five!” I told her. We did just that from crack in the path to crack in the path. On the fourth time we were jogging, I felt my bad knee slip out of its socket a little (in spite of my pro-knee brace). I stopped the running right away. At this point we were closing in on the finish line (about .5 miles to go). I insisted Amanda break away from me and jog the rest of the way. I couldn’t take holding her back and ruining her time for one more second. She finally agreed and looked like she’d been running for years as she sprinted off toward the finish line. I was soon passed by a man in a chili pepper suit handing out coupons and a five year old, and I came to fully realize the extent of my pathetic shape. The crowd was amazing! Music was playing, people were cheering! Encouraged by this support (and refusing to be licked by a chili pepper), I sucked it up and gingerly jogged the last .1 mile. I finished 180th with an official time of 46.28. That’s 46minutes and 28seconds. My personal best! Amanda finished 176th with an official time of 45.46! That’s out of 232 people. Hey! I wasn’t last! I’ll take it. After the race we hung out at the SacMomsClub booth and enjoyed gabbing away. We looked for fellow SacMomsClub mom blahblahblah at the ½ marathon finish line, but didn’t see her. I can’t wait to hear how she did, as it was her first half marathon! She’s been training like crazy. As we were watching the other “real” runners come into finish, I was struck by what a unique cultural experience it is. People’s family and friends were there, strangers taking pictures, signs, balloons, flowers, music… It was a giant celebration of a physical accomplishment. I felt like a big faker being there. Like an Anthropologist studying a mysterious culture. I swore to myself that I would work much harder to train next time. Amanda and I then took off and had a well-earned cup of coffee together. I honestly felt like I had known her for years and could have easily spent the entire day at the coffee shop with her. This is what I love about SacMomsClub! Without it, I wouldn’t have entered the 5K, met Amanda or jogged at all! I told Amanda that without her, I’m sure I would have finished last, or at least had passed the hour mark. Next year, I want to do the ½ marathon and get a medal (everyone who ran/walked the ½ got one). Jewelry is always a big incentive for me!
9 comments from 7 users
1
posted by
MiaMama
on May 5, 2008 at 01:25 PM
posted by
creatress
on May 5, 2008 at 01:44 PM
posted by
AmandaS
on May 5, 2008 at 02:59 PM
posted by
hmoeckli
on May 5, 2008 at 06:27 PM
It sounds like a great time! You have a ton to be proud of Creatress! posted by
creatress
on May 5, 2008 at 07:11 PM
I would totally fast-walk the 1/2 next year with you all! posted by
Melody
on May 5, 2008 at 07:28 PM
posted by
mom2twinboys
on May 6, 2008 at 08:12 AM
posted by
creatress
on May 6, 2008 at 08:19 AM
You guys are so sweet with your support. Thanks so much. And you're right Melody, I didn' t think of it that way (that I DID IT, so I can't be a poser.) posted by
wifemotherdaughtersister
on May 6, 2008 at 01:28 PM
1
|
Home




You were so descriptive about your experience, I almost felt like I was there! Now I'm pooped! I need a drink of water.