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A Treat You Don’t Eat

So I’ve been feeling the need for a treat this week, but one you don’t eat. It’s been about a year since I went to the nail salon and got my nails done, something I used to consider a must when I worked a regular job.

 

In fact, I had NEVER had a manicure till I was 31 years old. I was at a family reunion and hanging out with my aunt (the day before the big event). She told me “we’re going to go get our nails done.” I was all for it, but a little nervous. My aunt has always had beautiful long nails. I knew very little about fake nails other than I thought they were a little strange (but pretty). We went out to the nearest salon and I was inducted into the land of fake nails. I wasn’t very impressed with the process.

 

It smelled bad (like a home perm) and the lady didn’t speak English. In the end though, my nails looked great. Even my rings looked better. I showed them to all the family the next day and actually felt really pretty. A few weeks later (not really knowing you were supposed to get a “fill”), I ended up taking them off myself. A process that was pretty uncomfortable and lasted at least three hours.

 

I didn’t get my nails done again for about another year. We had a big vacation coming up and I wanted something special. I found a salon in Davis, and off I went! This time the experience went better. The lady spoke good English, so I was taught the process. Fiberglass lasts longer than acrylic (though costs a big more). Come back in two weeks for a fill. All the goodies you need to know.

 

Cost (about $27 for a fiberglass “full-set” and $18 for a “fill”) led me to come and go through the years. I always considered it to be an extra treat to indulge in when we had extra money. Whenever I have my hair short, I do like to have the long, strong nails. There’s just something so girly about it. I usually stick to a French style (white tips) as they tend to go with anything, but the choices and options are almost endless.

 

I’m not sure how long my mood will last this time, but it was fun and today I am feeling like a pretty girl. If you’re never gotten a manicure (or pedicure), I recommend it!

Here are some things to look for in a good salon and tips once you’re there.

-Go by recommendations, talk to your friends. Almost everyone has a favorite salon (mine is First Lady Nails in Davis)

-Look for a business license on display and cosmetology licenses for each employee also on display (like when you get your hair cut). This is mandatory.

-Look at how clean the shop is. Is the floor dirty? Turn the other way and walk out.

-Plastic jet tubs, though feeling nice, aren’t the safest of options. Look instead for a salon that has big soak bowls. Salons like this will usually charge more, but it’s better to be safe. (My salon has tubs carved out of stone. Very pretty AND sanitary)

-Use and toss emery boards. Watch to see they are throwing tools like emery boards away, and retreaving metal tools from a sanitation station.

-Count on tipping 20% when done.

- Wear loose pants you can roll up easily if getting a pedicure, or leave your rings and watch at home for a manicure. Bring a bottle of water too. A manicure or pedicure can take up to an hour each.

-In doubt? Ask the manager or owner your questions and their suggestions, or walk.

-Don't be surprised if they don't speak very good English.

-Most salons take walk-ins (yay!), so don’t worry about making an appointment. Just have enough time in case you have to wait and read a magazine for a bit.

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posted by creatress on Feb 29, 2008 at 10:15 AM
I'm sensing another fun moms day out we could plan here. Peddies for all!

I can totally see the dust. Breathing in all that stuff all day has to be horrible for you. They wear masks now to protect their mouth and nose (when working with the acrylic or fiberglass), so that's good. I hope your mom has no lasting damage! That's cute that she still gets her nails done.
posted by MamaLisa on Feb 29, 2008 at 07:26 PM
I miss the days of manicures and acrylic nails.  When I found out I was pregnant last year, the trips to the nail salon came to a screeching hault.  Apparently it wasn't safe to get my nails done during pregnancy because the smallest infection from unsanitized tools could cause a big problem.  And now that my little one has graced me with her presence and is the smallest little angel, I can't see changing her diapers with long nails.  I feel like I could somehow hurt her and it's not worth it.  But trust me, as soon as she's bigger and a little less fidgety, it's back to the nail salon for me!
posted by Tchiis on Feb 29, 2008 at 10:47 PM
I think having peddie day out with mothers is a fantastic idea. I think we should do it. maybe for mothers day or even sooner.  last time that I went to get a mani, I took my 3 year old and we both got our nails done, it was fun.
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