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Read about how a SAHM/WOHM of two young boys (a 5 year old with special needs and a 2 year old) juggles days filled with work, school, daycare, and therapies (for her oldest son and herself!), and still manages to get dinner on the table a few nights each week.
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Under Water
Last year, we decided Bee needed to learn how to swim. So I found one of those in-home swimming instructors and signed him up for lessons. It was okay - Bee usually loves water, but was very hesitant to get in with the instructor. He sometimes has trouble with new people, though. We were diligent about practicing in between appointments - blowing bubbles in the bathtub, dunking him under water in the pool, etc. He enjoyed himself, but really made no progress all summer. I was kind of disappointed - I really wanted him to have something that he liked doing, because his days were already filled with things he had to do. The summer ended; the weather got colder; we figured we'd try it again next year.

Fast forward: next year becomes this year. My parents had sold their house (sob), so we needed to find a place that offered swim lessons. I kept hearing how good Debbie Meyer's program was, so we called for some info and went down to sign up. You prepay for 12 15-minute sessions. 15 minutes? That's it? Seems short to me. I was assured that he would learn a lot and so we went ahead. We chose Isaac as our instructor - apparently, he's great with kids with special needs. Then we waited two weeks for the lessons to start.

Big Man decided this was going to be his thing with Bee. We started prepping Bee for the lessons about a week before, but really - he needed no prepping. Once he heard the word "swimming", he was all over it. He practically flew out the door to go to his lesson. I was filled with typical mom-dread: would he enjoy it, would he throw a tantrum at the pool, how many times would he want to flush the toilets. Okay - maybe those aren't all typical, but they're typical for me.    :)

They were back less than an hour later. Bee was beaming, so was Big Man. "He did great", Big Man said. Bee went on and on about swimming with Isaac. It's still a popular refrain in our household. I was thrilled.

So on Tuesdays and Thursdays, Bee and his dad load up in the car and head out for lessons. I get reports on how he's doing: Bee's huge smile going and coming back speaks for itself; Big Man fills in the details. Isaac is apparently thrilled with Bee's progress. He asked Big Man if we had been swimming with Bee in between lessons (we haven't). He said Bee is doing great.

I needed to see for myself.

Lee, Bee and I loaded up in the car and met Big Man at the swim school. Then I realized I forgot the swim bag at home. Luckily, Bee already had his trunks on, but I had to high-tail it back home to get his towel. So I did, and made it just in time to see the last 5 minutes.

I cannot accurately describe to you what I saw, because my eyes filled with tears the minute I saw this beautiful child swimming half the length of the pool by himself, then looking up and giving me the biggest smile I have ever seen. He holds his breath under water. He swims under water! He dives for toys - you guessed it - under water! Folks, this was his 10th lesson. Two hours of swimming under his belt this year.

When we signed him up for swimming last year, this is what I hoped for at some point. I don't know that I actually expected it. I just wanted something for Bee to truly look forward to; something that was his and his alone. I'm glad I got what I wanted; I'm ecstatic for Bee.

I'm still tearing up. I know I'm a sap, but oh - if you could have seen him.

So now I know two things:

1. I can't wait to sign Lee up for lessons.
2. We are soooo getting a pool.

:)
Topics: bee, swimming, awesomeness
posted by blahblahblah on Thursday, May 22, 2008 at 08:34 PM
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posted by munchkinsmom on May 23, 2008 at 08:31 AM
Ah, fun!!! I used to love going to the pool when I was little and I can't wait until my son is older and we can share that experience with him!
posted by jnavine on May 23, 2008 at 09:28 AM
Congrats to you and your son!!
posted by creatress on May 23, 2008 at 04:37 PM

Isn't that amazing! There is nothing quite as wonderful as seeing your special needs child accomplish something amazing like that. I'm so glad that you found such a wonderful place. What a great daddy to take him. You're lucky!

We did swim lesson with our son when he was very little. They were wonderful! A good teacher makes all the difference. To this day, he still loves water.

posted by hmoeckli on May 23, 2008 at 10:05 PM
That's so cool that your son and his dad have something to do together. Yay for swimming!
posted by blahblahblah on May 24, 2008 at 12:14 PM
Awww... thanks, guys. And I didn't even consider the dad/son time thing. Big Man is very involved in their lives, so it's never been an issue.

He's been talking about swimming with Isaac non-stop since Thursday. Counting down the days...   :)
posted by jnkmommy on Jun 10, 2008 at 05:51 PM
Wow that blog gives me hope about my older son going to swim lessons.  Its so hard to get him to try something new, especially something like that.  I am so happy to hear Bee did so well, wow that is awesome.
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