Tales From a Triplet House

Tales From a Triplet House
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ThatTripletMom - > Tales From a Triplet House -> I need a 'do-over'...
I need a 'do-over'...

Logically, I know that an adult should never, ever let themselves be drawn in to a battle of wills with their child.  It never ends well.  

So, why did I let it happen today?  I’m tired.  I’m cranky.  I’m overwhelmed by the things I have to do for my business at this time of year.  I should know better.

He’s tired and cranky (from Mommy relaxing the bedtime schedule over the summer and now demanding a change), He’s overwhelmed (from all the changes happening in his life; kindergarten - alone without his sisters, turning 6, Gramma and Grandaddy coming and going with their visit, Mommy and Daddy getting ready to leave for a week). He needs his mommy. He needs a hug.

Now is the time I should be comforting him through all of this.  But his defiant shout of, “No! I won’t!” (his new refrain) that one last time drove me over the edge and into Time-Out-For-Mommy zone.  I should have taken a time-out.  But I got into a shouting match with him - a 6 yr old. 

And there were no winners, only two sorry losers clinging to each other, crying.

Take a deep breath.  Tomorrow is a new day.  Let's start over my darling boy.

Topics: parenting, tantrums, phases
posted by ThatTripletMom on Tuesday, September 2, 2008 at 10:24 PM
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posted by creatress on Sep 4, 2008 at 08:07 AM
We've all been there. You have a great perspective on it. We all make mistakes. Tomorrow try again!
posted by ThatTripletMom on Sep 4, 2008 at 09:11 AM
Thanks Creatress.  Yesterday was a better day.  Today seems to be going well too.  He is still acting like he's 6.  But I have been acting like the adult again.  It's much better that way. :o)

Tomorrow, TripletDad and I leave for a week on our business trip to the annual baby industry tradeshow.  I know that I will have a lot of behaviors to iron out with our kids when we return.  It is always a challenge to kids to adapt to temporary caregivers (even if the are grandparents).  And then it takes some time and patience to get them back on the regular house schedule and routine again after a trip.

Just reminding myself of that is sometimes all I need, though.
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